BE-DO-HAVE: Coach Ted Schmidt shares with a list of how YOU can BE SUCCESSFUL.....
By Joy Mizzoni
Team Support Specialist
ActionCOACH Spokane
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I am two people. The old Joy and the new Joy.
When I feel like procrastinating, giving up, or I start
feeling impulsive, I ask myself, “What would the “New Joy” do?
For example, this morning I had an appointment at 7:30
am. I was up at 6 am and showered. I was
back in bed; sound asleep by 6:20 am.
When my alarm went off at 7:00 am I immediately decided to blow this
appointment off and go back to sleep.
Seconds later I asked myself, what would the “new Joy” do?
Well, the “new Joy” got up, got dressed and made it in
record time to her appointment. The “old
Joy” was less than happy.
Why am I telling you this?
Because there is this simple principle called BE, DO, HAVE.
In order to get the results you want to HAVE, you must DO
the things that are necessary for success, and these things are usually
preceded by the correct thinking or BE-ing.
Stop for a moment and think about someone you admire and who
has achieved a level of success you someday wish to obtain.
What sorts of things does that person DO?
- Does that person blow off commitments deemed as inconvenient?
- Does that person make excuses for failure and blame other people for their misfortune?
- Does that person have a negative attitude?
Let me ask you something. Have you ever worked with someone
who seemed to get away with murder in the workplace? They have a miserable
attitude, they sabotage their co-workers, and they are not fully involved or
committed to success of the organization. Has it ever appeared that this person puts in
little effort but suffers no consequence?
Their financial situation seems abundant and their clientele satisfied;
yet all their mannerisms, habits, communication style contradicts their
apparent success?
I guarantee you that the cracks will start to show. Clients will become unhappy and financial repercussions
will ensue.
We all want short-cuts. We all want to work less and make
more money. We live in a society that expects instant gratification.
I asked Certified Business Coach Ted Schmidt what
highly-successful people actually DO.
Who do I have to BE?
“Highly successful people make others around them better.
They bring people up with them; they don’t hold them down,” explains Coach Ted.
He offers the following insights when trying to apply the
BE-DO-HAVE principle to your own life.
What do successful people DO?
· Write down goals
· Use their time productively
· Delegate
· Stay focused on their goals
· Prepare
· Work hard
· Always do their best
· Project confidence
· Follow through on commitments
· Communicate effectively
· Show up on time
“Successful people are confident and comfortable in their
own skin and have gained confidence by learning from their mistakes and not
repeating them,” says Coach Ted. “If you
want to be perceived as professional, you need to start BEING a professional in
the way you act, dress, and speak.”
Coach Ted sums up the BE-DO-HAVE principle: “If you want to
be successful surround yourself with successful people!”
Special thanks to Coach Ted Schmidt for sharing his valuable insights with me for this posting. Be sure to read Coach Ted's blog and visit him on Facebook.
